Someone recently asked me what mine and my husband's love languages were and that if we didn't know we should get the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. Well, we actually bought that book a few years ago and read it together. We wanted to keep the love going in our marriage and decided to find out what our love languages were so we could fill up each other's love banks!!! And thus keep love alive in our marriage! Granted, we need to read it and remember probably at least once a year...But anyway, my primary love language is quality time followed by physical touch. Archie's are words of affirmation and acts of service.
So we try and keep up on our love banks, sometimes we forget, but it's good to be reminded! It's a great book! Give it a try if you haven't yet!